It lasted for a year and we functioned well in the one-on-one, but had trouble integrating it with our lives. But I didn't consider him anymore. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. I dont think it was his fault he told me he was going through a lot and I know he was but he asked me be friends which I thought was friend zoning me but he has aquarius descendant and he told me to watch this movie afyer he asked to be fruends where the opening line was friends cant be friends and have sex and he said he wasnt done having sex. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. 12th House Synastry - Sasstrology.com I recent discover my crush has his Mars in my 12th conjunct my Ascendant. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. I mean your spirits are communicating with each other, that type of thing. He was so familiar, which I think it's because of the NN connections. Such as unconditonal love, romance, spirituality, and discovering each others gifts and talents and putting them to use. My 12th Houser actually taught and showed me the GEMINI IN ME that I was in denial of. Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. No way, jose. Venus in 10th House Personality Traits | Ryan Hart It just went down a long and winding road until it got out of control. His Venus is trine my Mars. At last i also found out that he was hidding some parts of his life. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. Sent 5 times a week. The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! Possibly. Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. Hi thank you for visiting! I leave, but I always come back after a while. when i came back there was this weird thing between us. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. This is because the two individuals want the same type of love relationship--they give and receive love in the same manner. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. Ironically, your experience sounds much like my own, excepting my 12th Houser turned mean and abusive, even though I was ARMS OPEN to him at all times. People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. like a Gemini (no offense meant) they are both good and evil, but THEIR Evil Twin often does the acting out. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . Yah, that 12th House synastry . The 12th house rules things. You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. =). I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. It ended when I invited him to my fathers birthday and he just couldnt do it (insert childhood issue here). Look for hard aspects from his venus to your planets. I thaught his strange behavior had something to do with this. ILLUME ASTROLOGY: The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes - Blogger does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? Otherwise we kind of don't touch. It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. We are from different countries. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. Posts: 2196 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011: posted March 08, 2013 01:12 PM . In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. Here are the examples i want to share with you. or I fail? He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. He got married, told me so and yet said that nothing will change. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? Venus in 10th House Synastry - Astrology School Positive aspects and conjunctions between Venus' show that the two people view love in a very similar way. You need to be clear in areas such as this, find out why you met this person or they you? I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. I feel like he's not being completely honest with me and himself about how he feels about me. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. To me and my daughter since we both dont have our dads. For example, my first ex BF married to the woman, who was his course mate. I know exactly what you mean and boy is it hard to wrap your head around 12th house connections, there are other worldly and they leave a deep impression that is hard to shake off. He left few weeks after we met for a travel for six months. My Moon quincunx his Moon. His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). As he has moved on, you must do also. But really what you also might be feeling is the Pluto Square Sun as well, that is another energy in itself that draws two people like Moth to flame:) the 12th house has roots in the past and most certainly is Karmic so perhaps that explains why it can go either way. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and . He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit. His mars is in my 12th house. We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. Please also note that having Venus in the 12th means very little without a lot of context. It turned into something of a horror show, and although I made the decision to cut all ties, every time I would weaken and go back I would get BLUDGEONED emotionally and psychically. , Hey I would like to know more about the 12th house synastry I have my bfs Venus Jupiter and I think another place landing in my 12th house but my sun sign, Mercury, and Jupiter are all in the 12th house so idk if that has a lot to do with why its so easy to connect with him because I read and obsessed over a secret relationship but its way out in the open all over social media on both side and his family knows all about me and my family knows all about him Im just so confused like yea sometimes Im thinking hes not telling me all his feelings but I feel like I know him on a deep level and then I feel like I dont like he seems too good to be true it makes me automatically not want to trust him .. hmmm. and yes check your saturn sometimes saturn can point to what you don't likebut then again it cam be good and make you feel comfortable with someomethats why overall picture of synastry is so important!!!!! If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. The North Node represents our souls goal in this l Mercury in Partners 1st house You will inspire easy communication with your partner. But I guess with the 12th house influence I may never know. Venus in twelfth (synastry) - Lindaland - Linda Goodman I wish I could see your charts so I could have a better picture of this. Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Will you tell me what this mean in synastry? lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. It doesn't necessarily have to do with verbal flattery but the presentation, image or interaction boosts the House. Hi, Elsa!! In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. Just a added general observation for everyone. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. I have Jupiter sun and mars in his 12th house in cancer and I really hope I didnt hurt him. I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). There will defo be issues and concerns regarding faithlessness, as Gemini males are often butterflies flitting from flower to flower chasing that honey, lol!!! Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. 12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! Cause he had to be free. My moon falls in someone's 12th house. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. Ya, I think we both feel a very strange draw to the other. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. I really felt that I WAS him that is, until he started bashing me mentally and spiritually. He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. Should I run now?? I can feel his worries and I always know what to say. We've been seeing each other for over a month now. i did not have any dreams of them. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. NO THANKS!!! With your partner's Venus in your 12th house, you are drawn to and captivated by your significant other. Topic: Venus in 12th house Synastry: KarkaQueen Knowflake . Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. I still dont know WHY that occurred . We have opposite rising signs. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. Synastry: My Planets Fall In His 12th House | ElsaElsa I remember I was passing by a tall guy, and in a quick thaught, I thaught: this one looks very handsome. Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). Oh lord: Hi, Steph sorry for the long delay in responding. hello, does anyone by any chance have any experience with venus being in the 12th house within synastry? I just cant seem to walk away from him or shut down on him totally. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. Hi Aida! He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. It's amazing. I FEEL like he's controlling his emotions for some reason unknown to me. Do you mind posting a synastry? Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. Why this could be happen? Now i know why. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! When wondering around in someones 12th or they in yours? Lot's of non-verbal communicating. But it just feels like i knew him before. Venus-Uranus in Synastry - The Astrology Place To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? inscryption cards. It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. Questions like "Why do I feel so attracted to this person?" seems to come to mind when they are in each other's presence. Any planet in the 12th house is aiming for something beyond its grasp. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. OH! Thats one thing I have been thinking about since reading other threads on the subject..also what house does your Venus fall in in his chart? He does tell me how he feels about me. Posts: 1873. Venus conjunct Venus is really good, you will like many of the same things and go about love a similar way. Hi, Heather. Love Synastry: Venus in the Houses - Crystal Life Coach Glad that its OVER!! When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. Hanging onto him and wishing for return engagements may bring you much heartache, and even loss he might be a sociopath and if that is how he rolls you could lose much in the ways of material goods. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. the assumptions of the worst. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. From the start. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. My Neptune is in my 10th house in Scorpio and since I guess I'm what they would call a "Pluto person" since I have so many (5) planets in my 8th house, maybe that would mean something? I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. Very confusing . after 2/3 months later i came to know that he has girlfriend somewhere in another country. You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. The 12th house is karmic for both for good or not so good both come through this house.:). Okay, this advice is not even remotely astrological, but take it from a person who dated a lot, and always with an intention to settle in a committed relationship. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. I keep reading stuff about 12th house and its scary I already have issues but like I said my natal chart is already filled with 12 house placements like sun, mercury, Jupiter, and something else and now my relationship?! No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . I don't know. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? I have known that this house related to karmic connection. With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. Posts: 2196From: UranusRegistered: May 2011. I understand this. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. There is a guy with his scorpio stellium (venus, moon, and pluto) in my 12th house, with his venus/pluto conjunct my Asc/pluto. Someone may be misinterpreting something. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. more than likely you will see, there is a very big reason:) Often they are a teacher when it's a good person, or you have something to teach them. He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person. Everything Worth Knowing About Venus In 12th House Synastry Its a bit of a puzzle, really, and I may not be explaining it clearly, but I do see what you mean, Elsa, in mirroring tendencies. We easily know what the other needs without words. And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? Venus is considered a Benefic, which means that this planet tends to bring good fortune. Nonetheless it offers us the opportunity to heal karma, overcome our fears, uncover hidden talents and gifts, and to truly see the mystical, magical spiritual world. Mars Synastry in the Houses: How do you provoke another? - Pathstrology It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. Hey! There is always a lesson and something you will learn and realize that the relationship was fated for some purpose bigger than you origionally thought but not meant to live out in this lifetime. Venus Synastry: 1st House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX Not without good reason, psychic and spiritual connections are not all that common, but they show us what exists beyond this physical world. Sounds karmic or so I think. They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. He makes me breakdown so many barriers. Venus Synastry in the Houses - Pathstrology This is the 1st time I've ever felt like I've met my other half.. my soulmate. I have something of a business relationship with someone. Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. Just not every second. Same here. I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. I could feel something so deep. Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. And he's had a muscle twitch problem for years. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. The first thing to . The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. The Venus conjunct Juno synastry aspect is a frequent aspect in the charts of couples, and so is Juno trine Venus in synastry. 12th house synastry venus - bpbwmb.salesconsulter.de http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. So strange in this 12th house. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. If neither one has any issues like these then the relationship does not need to take on such a heavy role and can then be about many of the positive aspects of this house. Conversely, he denies my physical needs. In other words he wanted us to remain in a hidden while he is married and has political career. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? I attracted those people in my relationship. On a very genera Don't forget to check out your monthly love horoscopes ! When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! But we fell in love, got divorced from our previous partners, came out at work, moved in together, got . Im so sorry for the delay! His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? I feel I cannot even hide from him. Synastry: Planet Overlays in Houses (Transposed Houses) It is a hard process . Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? but I CAN (4-Sag placement, counting the PF), and thus I DID. venus in 10th house synastry - Astrology Anonymous I have my Venus in my would-be partners 12th House conjunct his Moon along with my Sun on the cusp of his 12th, his Sun is partially in my 12th House, his Neptune is in my 5th House conjunct my Mercury, and my Moon is in his 4th House conjunct his Mercury, Mars, and Jupiter. Weekend Love Forecast Leo Moon Mood With Some Dramatic STYLE, Full Moon in Virgo: March 7, 2023 Mutable T-Square Distractions, Sign up to be notified when the blog updates. Hes very affectionate and cuddly. Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. Sign up here! Long story short I am finally over MY 12th House love for many of the reasons posted by Morag. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. I've been rather busy these days but am always happy to answer questions:) The 12th house is about as mysterious and the afterlife! Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. Now, I broke off the friendship and he can't contact me. Posts: 1873From: GeorgiaRegistered: May 2009. there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. Venus in 12th House - astrology.community - Donuts I think anyway 12th house is involved. Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf. You can hide things from eachother and it can make you feel vulnerable or weary, so it's not a house for everyone. The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. I find your insight very helpful. Jupiter i Mars is aggressive by nature but the sign and house, and aspects made to him will alter how he plays out in synastry. I have had a couple of encounters in which I felt bad vibes but the others were unbelievably psychic and strangely accepting and confessional, I personally really like this house but I also know quite a few that have had very poor experiences, so the negative does need to be warned.